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When do you think is the right point to decide whether you want to leave everything as it is or continue trying to become friends? Is a lack of initiative from the other party always a sign of no interest? Great question. But, if you feel like you continue not getting anything back from those guys, maybe it is time looking for a male friend move on. Hello, I congratulate you on a well-written article.

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This is where getting involved in groups, volunteering and so on will help to develop friends both male and female who actually care about you not just to have people at your funeral.

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Thanks for bringing this subject matter out of the darkness. My problem is that I feel like it is always me that has to make the first step. I know, I am the fof that wants some friends, but other I figure that other people are in these groups for similar reasons. It seems that eventually, the responsibility for maintaining the friendship is shared. For the few friends I have, it feels like it is me that does the heavy lifting.

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I just dropped it. Thanks Chris, glad you found it helpful.

Thank you for the suggestion—the art of maintaining a friendship is definitely a worthy topic. Thanks for the write up! Recently, I met one and we both seem to enjoy hanging out and easy conversation about topics we both see as important. I do have tons more resources and also time on my hands.

The last main experience we had was me helping him prepare looking for a male friend an exam in one of his other classes. I found it very interesting, and he was very receptive and sure to express his appreciation, a behavior not so common in younger people today.

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We also explored our opinions on major political issues, mostly by my asking him for his thoughts. It was more than surprising to learn that his opinions are so similar to. Please make suggestions to keep me on a balanced track. As you suggest, married men are almost impossible because of their developed commitments.

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If you grow into close friends, even better. Hope that helps! All the way from Nigeria. This article is so richly packed. Great article, man. My life brought me the tri-blessings of a wife from Europe Spaina daughter who is bicultural and bilingual, and multilingualism in myself along make a looking for a male friend in the language service field.

I am a very happy, lucky guy. My wife comments to me all the time on the nature of American friendships as adults, both male and female.

She comments on the complete and utter lack of spontaniety. The Spanish culture is highly conducive to kids and parents getting. In Spain, it is OK for kids to go to bars with their parents. In America, this would cause the mainstream crowd former jocks and cheerleaders of high school to lose their minds and declare a federal looking for a male friend suit.

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It tells me that in America, we have gotten so far away from socializing in a healthy way. We are people. People are social animals. Everyone has a story. Just talk without fear. After that national tragedy, you could feel the palpable decay of frkend and spontaneous conversation. Dangerous, evil, different, weird.

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Our paranoia has a tiring effect looking for a male friend those of us who see through it and see frriend utterly pointless it is to live life wrapped up in a bubble of fear. We should take a lesson from the Spaniards on this one. We do not do everything perfectly in the USA.

That has been made clear over the past 30 years. We can take cues from other people whose cultures have existed longer than. They are not better people.

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All x guys on here seem to have such similar feelings and experiences with the challenges of making and maintaining frienr friendships in adulthood. It almost seems like a good idea if we left contact information and area of residence. But then trying to meet people online has always felt a bit like cheating compared with the art ffiend striking up conversations in person.

I will try being more bold at the gym which has mael worked. I talk easily with older men and am open to conversations with younger men but I really crave acceptance and deep friendship with a real peer. I can be full of confidence especially at work. But I definitely have adequacy challenges, despite having served as a Marine and been deployed to Iraq. I am not athletic beyond working out and am not usually able to carry on a conversation about sports. Honestly when I was going through problems in my marriage I felt the lack of close male amle very acutely.

I want someone to be tough with me and keep me in line and that I can lookinng the same for and just be honest ror about shit that bothers me. We have a great relationship and enjoy each other, but I do think we rely on each too much for all aspects of friendship. Thanks for the post, I really enjoyed the thorough explanation and steps to take in different scenarios!

This friendship just kind of happened with brief interactions while we were co-workers and then gradually we discovered shared interests and experiences that helped it keep growing.

But, let me tell you, it has been a fight all looking for a male friend way! I have visited regularly at his looking for a male friend. I have almost zero self-confidence! But after four years, I think maybe? Just like with romantic relationships, if one person feels needy in frifnd head, that can sometimes come. You have no reason to worry. You are both just two adult men who hang out with each other if you both want to.

If you want to hang out with fr or see mape, reach. As far as the hug thing, I think you have to take a similar stance of confidence.

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If you think the moment is right, go in for the hug. Hope this helps. Good luck! You make a lot of good points. Lookng chemistry is definitely.

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Hey Mike, glad you found the article helpful. I keep coming back to this article I posted previouslyand I find that it really helps keep my feelings on things in check. And then I feel weird about always reaching out and seeming desperate, so I try not to do. I have just posted on here Mary and girl xxxxxxxxx Looking for a male friend read your post.

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I live in a retirement community that is very active. I love talking and listening to people and introducing guy friends to other guys. So, what always happens is that they end up connecting with each other and leaving me. Really confusing and at times disheartening. The results were that I found myself completely. While the others were, as I found fro, constantly connecting and doing stuff, not one of them made any effort towards me.

It was a real wake up call for me. Any thoughts? Thanks for sharing, Frkend. A couple thoughts: Basically, because you expect to be left out, unwittingly you may be helping it continue.

I know that sounds crazy, but it can happen. The other thought is, even when things are going well, in adulthood, I think maintaining a healthy social life ALWAYS seems to take work. I say keep putting yourself out there, and try to keep a good attitude about it. So sensible, so do-able, so uplifting. So I browsed a bit further and came across this section on making Guy Friends, to which I have now directed my nephews and a couple of men friends who I think will appreciate it.

Wish I could find something as good for women. We have LOADS of advice pumped at us, constantly, but nothing as genuine and straightforward as. Life has taught me amle once grade school is over, nobody except parents and siblings can really be trusted for anything good, and that the only true friend in life is God. Great article, Kyle! The onus looking for a male friend such conversations lies on man massage auckland initiator and the other person was just minding their business, doing their thing.

Just my two cents. In a way, such interactions like all others are predicated on what our perceptions of fear with respect to being rejected are.

In this regard I have a partially academic, mmale partially practical question. Can such a fear extend to causing anxiety to indivdiuals? And what really is a solution to something like this?

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Hope that helps. Hang in there, and good luck! Hi Kyle, Thanks for responding to my post.